2 Timing

i'm sure many have actually dated quite a few guys in your life. now.... would it be shattering to know that the guys you have dated, is actually attached from the very begining?

i have a fren, A, whom have been dating, B, for about 4 years. they know each other at a local suana. after a passionate sex, exchange number, talked on the phone, went on their very first date, then slowly, developed into a relationship thingy.

they will go for holidays every year...
the only curfew B has.... is that he do not sleep over at A's place. reason he gave was that he feels "pai say"


A and B meet on a frequency of 2-3 days a week. yes, even after 4 years, they are still meeting quite frequently.

When A first introduced B to me.... erm.... my heart skipped a beat.. i bedded this guy before :P, B and i had previously gone out for a few dates before, somehow i felt no sparks between us. but of cos, that was before they even knew each other. (how small is the AJ world?) but erm..... i chose to remain quiet, due to my young age then. i am happy i did that. look how well that couple turned out...

as years goes by, me and A got better and better, he began to tell me his problems with his bf. the main problem that exist is.... there are no problems. and this smooth relationship kindda freaks A out a bit. B was a loving person, he was everything that A could ask for. B is a very discipline person, he would pay his bills on time, holds a professional job, his time was very predictable.

A felt that B was too predictable, thus he usually do not even bother with what B do, when he have his "free" time. B will give loving sms to A to let him know of his "where-about" and such. in short, A was very happy with B.

a few weeks ago, i bumped into an very old fren, C, whom i have known for about 9 years. but lost contact for about 7 years, (i drifted away ever since i got attached) midway through chatting, i learnt that C have been attached for 8 years, and still going, but as C is an air steward, he is seldom in singapore. and he goes on and on about how accomodating his bf is.... then he showed me a "Neo-Print" of him and his bf.

my heart skipped again. there in the neoprint acting cute is C....... and..... B!! (OMG!) i asked what's B's name... and ta da~ i have confirmed that B is attached with another person! (Both my friends!)

B was 2-timing! OMG. my first instinct, i should tell A. but then.... whenever A tells me about B, he sound so..... blissed.

i was a bit vexed if i should tell my friend. but thinking deeper, why ruin 2 "perfect" relationships, all because of something i know? so being the usual "bo chup" person that i am, i remained quiet.

was simply surprised by A and C only. how could they have been attached for soooooooo long, without knowing that his partner is actaully attached with another person? oh well.... i do take my hats off B. LOL

Song Of The Day: 周蕙 -- 替身

A Warm Posting

wow.... my darling Xiao Lup Lup wrote an entree for me and Asu darlin in his blog....

so warming to read what he wrote about me. :) brightens up my nite :) thanks darling. Muaks

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Are You Shallow?

okie, very bo liao i know, but this thought suddenly drawn onto me today.....

if there are 2 people who wans to bed you. (read: sex)

A) a very very to die for, nice body. those type that slim lover, stocky lover will like. BUT (yeap, there's always a cache) his face really cannot make it.

B) a very very cute face, but very chubby body.

which one will you choose?

(The above question is not applicable to chasers :P)

all along, i always thought that everyone will definately choose B. haha but hell i am so wrong. haha i actually have friends who actually will choose A. be it B's face looks like the type they love or not.

according to them, "Its only sex.. once you switch off the lights, you cannot see the face. but you definately will feel the body.... its always better to feel/lick/suck someone with a better body."

well. then i'm a B supporter. i always think that no matter how good your body might be, but if the face turns me off... then...... I'm sorry. In a way, i still think that ANYONE can train their body to become 6 pec, just depends on whether you want to or not.

or was it just me, i cannot bring myself to blow / blown by someone, whose face turns me off. haha so in a way, i MUST see who i am doing with. haha so i guess people like me definately cannot survive in in Suana's Darkroom. haha

The one who goes only for the body?

The one who goes only for the face?

in your opinion, which of the above are the "Shallow" ones? hehehe

and yah. i'm one of the shallow people. hehe but i have my principles. :P

PS: the above is strictly toking about ONS. possible-relationship cases are not being discussed in this posting.


Song Of The Day:
Faye Wong - Eyes on Me (Remix version)



i keep listening to this version the whole day, hope you guys like it as much as i do. :)

Your Carbon Footprint.

One of the things i most feared to do, is to meet the friends of the person that you are dating. and also to intro the person i am seeing to my friends.

reason being very simple. what if you have already slept with his friends? or what if you were previously dating his friends? does it feels weird to know that your bf have actually slept with your friends before?

i mean.... on the same note. your friends knows what your bf's dick looks like, your friend knows that your bf likes to have his nipples licked, your friends knows that your bf likes his ear nibbled. Or worst... your friend knows the way your bf likes to f**ck /be f**ked.

i'm sure most of you guys out there is not that innocent, in the sense that you have never dated, bedded anyone in your lifetime. if you are a virgin, and have never dated before, i congragulate you. you are excused from all the above mentioned worries.

but like i said. most of us are mere mortal, thus, we must have accumulated quite a number of sexual conquest, to a certain degree....

so the question comes, when your bf brings you to attend a party, which he intends to introduce you to his group of friends, are you worried that, you have slept with one of them / a few of them? so if SWAY SWAY, that really happens, what will you do?

will you....

A) Tell your bf immediately?

B) Find a chance to bring that fling one side and beg him not to tell?

C) Act blur like nothing happened, hoping that your fling will not tell, and your bf never will know?

i was pondering about this issue. if i were that in that situation, i most proberly will hope that my bf comes clean with me, rather then me acting like a fool, while i were trying to make my fren tok to my bf. (when they had already been more intimate)

everyone must understand that we all are no saints.... thus, the carbon footprint we left behind always tends to cause some demage. thus these type of things happen both ways...

although he might have already slept with your friends, but what makes you so sure that You had Never slept with one of his?


what's past is past, do not keep brooding over what have already happened, i mean, when he decided to have a fling with your friends, he might not have even known you lor. so why be upset over things that happened before you appear? the most important thing that you SHOULD mind..... is that it DID NOT happen after you are attached. anything before, just close one eye ba.

A Pug.

was looking for some notes this morning in my cupboard.. came across this chain that i used to put on my previous dog. ( he passed away many years back.) and suddenly miss my Ah Boi~ very much.

all of a sudden, have the urge to go get myself another dog.... then remembered that i can be rather impulsive at times, so decided to wait a few weeks to cool off first. Then will decide if i wanna get another dog. but i was browsing through the net, and came across pics of many dogs. only one breed, i have feel in. (not even the breed of my Ah Boi caught my attention lor)

Pug



just look at the soulful eyes.... biangz... just makes you wanna pick him up and kiss him nonstop!



a pug puppy. thought it looks like a piglet though. neitherless... still adorable. hahah showed the pics to some friends, telling them i am interested in getting a pug... most of them say.... "You got Weird Taste~ so Ugly!"

haha ugly meh? i tot looks unique and cute ley......

I have even decided to name it: Gadget *my surname* Ah Touch! hahaha (lame i know. but i like ley :P)

Aneros Prostate Massager

Sex toys... i'm sure most of you guys out there must have at least used one sex toy before. be it a vibrator or a "raised-dots" condoms.

Most dildos are targetted at women.... however i did find one that is targetted at men. haha yah.. i owns one. bought a few years back. even though i read the testimonal and an quite interested in the "Hard-less" ejaculation. thus i went down to "U4ria" at orchard emerald to get it. was a bit pai say when i enter the shop. the lady salesgal was really very friendly and very open. i was like "Wah...." she was introduing me all the good and bad point of most of the sex toys OPENLY! haha anyway i quickily bought what i wanna buy and left the place in a swift.

After i bought the Anerox. i did try it on myself, and dunno izzit cos of the antisipation, or what.... i never achieved the so call orgasm that it claim it can bring. end up. its locked up in a suitcase on top of my cupboard for a long time. i even forgot that i owns one! haha i was focusing on the masturbator that i also bought during the trip. haha

a few months ago, when i was clearing my unwanted stuffs, this toy resurfaced. i was thinking... hm..... maybe try again later ba....

later that evening, i inserted that into my anus... and erm.... i still din get any form of orgasm from it. haha maybe i was too tired by the cleaning of my room that day..... i felt asleep halfway while JOing with the aneros inside me... haha WITHOUT Cumming!

i woke up feeling weird.. usually when i wake up from sleeping, i will just open my eyes, stare in space for 1-2 mins before i move. so when i try to turn my body to face upwards. (i was sleeping sideways), i suddenly felt a sensation from inside my body. which kindda shocked me. i totally forgot i had something in my ass! haha

then i suddenly felt a similar sensation which i hadn;t felt in years.... do you remember the very first time when you jerk off? and when you first cum, that ultra very very intense feeling? as you grow older and more experience, the cumming part becomes less and less intense.....

well... i suddenly had that very intense contraction feeling again, whenever i try to move my body! but this time my dick was only semi hard. after a while, i just start cumming everywhere...(and the quantity was scary..).. but the amazing thing is... post cumming, the contraction did not stop there. i was still feeling it... (and kindda enjoying it too :P)

after a while more. i started cumming again! this time my dick was soft. so i was kindda amazed.

the 2nd time felt more of like..... someone was topping you, and you auto cummed? :P

anyway the whole thing lasted about 15 mins. as my body gets more tensed. i was kindda in a state of shock lar. and.... ya. my cum was everywhere. :P

damn.... and i had to change my bed sheet again. my mum was like" Why are you washing your bedsheets again? i tot you just changed?" i merely kept quiet...(i usually do all my laundry, including my own bedsheets btw)

i did attempt to try again after that... but somehow, just couldn;t get there. hahaha maybe i should just insert it in, and then sleep. LOL who knows. maybe the next day when i wake up, "surprise" might awaits me again.

oh Warning.... you will get VERY DRAINED after the orgasm. and really depends on your body, some might not get the advertised orgasm . from the time i bought , to the time i had my first prostate orgasm... the duration took 3 years! damn. haha how nice if i can get that everytime i use that right? ahahaha i think you must be very very very relaxed for the thing to work....

anyway.. just in case you are interested to get any sex toys but too shy to get it at the store. below is the website of U4Ria. haha they provide home delivery :P

U4Ria Website

i will also attach the official website of Aneros. and also explain a bit on how it works.

Aneros Website

The Aneros converts the body's own anal-sphincter muscle contractions into fuel for itself. Each "squeeze" of the anal-sphincter causes the Aneros to pivot forward, providing a direct internal massage of the prostate. When the man "relaxes" the sphincter muscle, the Aneros pivots back, pressing on the pernieum for an external prostate massage. The man's body becomes in tune with this cycle of squeezing and relaxing, and he begins to experience involuntary contractions of the sphincter muscle.

For A Very Dear Friend.

I'm not really very good with words, dispite having written so many entrees.

i just learnt from another friend, 2 nights ago, that a very dear friend of mine is is having some serious family problems lately. i was very shocked when i learn about it. cos i just met this friend a few days ago, and he mentioned nothing at all. and i do blame myself for not being sensitive enought to realise anything.

turns out, this friend of mine, knew that i was facing some problems at home too, due to my mum's health, thus he did not want to bother me with his problems...

what i wanna say is..... Even though i cannot be of any siginificant help, but the least i could do is to lend you a listenting ear....

I don't call you a dear friend for political reason, nor for fun. i might appear to be rather "bo chup" usually, but do let us share your emotion baggage.....

Shit Happens.... things can be overwhelming.....but don't ever let life gets you down... Be strong. bless. *hugz*

Below is a song for you... :)

Mariah Carey -- Can't Take That Away

True Love = Great Sex?

There was a saying...."True love do not exist without great sex". And yet, you can have great sex, with people you do not like, or even know. so what happens if you met someone, whom you think is the love of your life, he is sensitive, caring, loving, everything you could ever ask for. BUT (yeap... there is always a cache) he couldn;t get it up....

are you willing to stick with him, when he could not satisfy you in bed at all....

Does one great sex experience with a particular person, guarantee you great sex with him everytime?

How do you classify the term "Great Sex"? must i always consist of penetration? if so, does that means you will never get great sex from someone with premature ejeculation problems?

Sex is actually meant to be an intimate act between 2 people who are physically attracted to each other. Bit if so, why was that charity sex you had not long ago, feels soooooo damn good? hahaha

To me: if A is eager to please B, and always puts B in first consideration in all sexual acts performed. and B is getting all the enjoyment that he likes.

can we say that B is having great sex?
Is A having great sex? or should we say A is giving good sex?

i thought the classifications are rather blur. hahaha i must be damn bo liao to think about these type of things.

For the believer, If you tell me that .... sex with your true love is so damn great...... why are you even visiting suanas / cruising ground looking for more sex? knowing fully well that the sex you will be getting will not be as great....

just my 2 cents' worth.