Yesterday a close fren confined in me, that he have not met this person that he likes since Chinese New Year. *did a count and realised that its been 17 days* He was feeling under the clouds. As i was listening to him, it suddenly struck me. Was i ever in these type of relationship? hmmm..... the answer is YES.
when you are in love with someone, you tends to do everything you can, within or out of your means, to make him happy. Every smile of his is damn attractive, every sound he makes - sounds like melody, even when he farts, it smells nice! :P *Yes you! Admit it!*
Even when he gives you crappy reasons like , i was very busy with work, i was very stressed with work, i was very......*fill in whatever reason you can come up with* you will always find him excuses, and believe in him..... to the extend that i find it kindda crappy now.
Firstly.... if the person really likes you. he is gonna call you and talk to you on the phone, even for 5 mins! from his office walk to toilet, from his office travel home, lunch time. you mean to say he couldn't spend that 3-4 mins talk to you on the phone?
Secondly.... if this person is crazy about you, no matter how late it is... he WILL want to meet you for dinner/supper. especially when you are agreeable to travel down to meet him. *which i know my fren is willing to*
Maybe i'm lucky, in the sense that people are willing to travel from jurong to geylang (buy supper) then bring to my place in Yishun. after passing me the food, he left. according to him, that 30 seconds of seeing me is worth the 1 hour plus travelling. *was touched lar... but din really developed*
i have people calling me on the phone, just asking about how is my day. and when i dun feel like talking, i made it clear, and he will put down the phone. *i too did this to people too, and believe me, that 10 seconds of "Yeap i'm good, i'm in a meeting now, can i call you back later?" is enough to put a smile on my face. and when he calls me back later, that action is enough to make my whole evening.
Even though this is said, there are some people out there who are really very reserved. but this does not apply to someone who is in his 40s, and is not new to the circle. they are playing games... believe me. cos i invented the thing call "Mind Games".
At the end of the day, when you feel that, you have done all you can, and still couldn't get a response. i'll say, just move on. you can still keep him in your list. but do not have any expectations from him anymore. Treat him like a FB , instead of a BF potiential. No matter what he have ever told you in bed. there are always better guys out there who will appreciate you for who you are. why wanna be in love with someone who is not, and will not, appreciate you for what you did?
PS: We all love you. You are adorable to us. Fuck him.
when you are in love with someone, you tends to do everything you can, within or out of your means, to make him happy. Every smile of his is damn attractive, every sound he makes - sounds like melody, even when he farts, it smells nice! :P *Yes you! Admit it!*
Even when he gives you crappy reasons like , i was very busy with work, i was very stressed with work, i was very......*fill in whatever reason you can come up with* you will always find him excuses, and believe in him..... to the extend that i find it kindda crappy now.
Firstly.... if the person really likes you. he is gonna call you and talk to you on the phone, even for 5 mins! from his office walk to toilet, from his office travel home, lunch time. you mean to say he couldn't spend that 3-4 mins talk to you on the phone?
Secondly.... if this person is crazy about you, no matter how late it is... he WILL want to meet you for dinner/supper. especially when you are agreeable to travel down to meet him. *which i know my fren is willing to*
Maybe i'm lucky, in the sense that people are willing to travel from jurong to geylang (buy supper) then bring to my place in Yishun. after passing me the food, he left. according to him, that 30 seconds of seeing me is worth the 1 hour plus travelling. *was touched lar... but din really developed*
i have people calling me on the phone, just asking about how is my day. and when i dun feel like talking, i made it clear, and he will put down the phone. *i too did this to people too, and believe me, that 10 seconds of "Yeap i'm good, i'm in a meeting now, can i call you back later?" is enough to put a smile on my face. and when he calls me back later, that action is enough to make my whole evening.
Even though this is said, there are some people out there who are really very reserved. but this does not apply to someone who is in his 40s, and is not new to the circle. they are playing games... believe me. cos i invented the thing call "Mind Games".
At the end of the day, when you feel that, you have done all you can, and still couldn't get a response. i'll say, just move on. you can still keep him in your list. but do not have any expectations from him anymore. Treat him like a FB , instead of a BF potiential. No matter what he have ever told you in bed. there are always better guys out there who will appreciate you for who you are. why wanna be in love with someone who is not, and will not, appreciate you for what you did?
PS: We all love you. You are adorable to us. Fuck him.
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