Multi-Dates?

i know that a few readers here actually visit my blog just to read about me write about relationships. hehehe someone once told me that he like the fact that i'm writing about stuffs that happen so frequently to many ppl, but yet no one is taking about it...

anyway... would like to ask if you guys have ever multi-date before? multi-date = date a few guys at one time. was telling a friend that i used to multi-date. and he was like. WAH~~~ WHY YOU SO LIKE THAT WAN? hmmmmm........

spent some times explaining to him that....... date = go out, and see if the 2 of you are suitable for each other.... of cos..... sex is involved. :P my theory..... no point harping on LTR if the sex is bad..... haha so i think its actually quite normal to date a few guys at one time.

Attachment on the other hand.... is another different story. attachment comes after the process of dating. frankily speaking. i tends to multi-date. but when i decides to be attached, i AM VERY committed.

so if in a relationship (meaning: attached), are you prepared to be monogamy? or open relationship? of cos..... if monogamy will be the best...... but then..... knowing very well about human nature....... i am able to accept open relationship.... it really depends on the agreement made at point of attachment.

i really really really hate it when ppl keep telling me how much they wanna monogamy with me..... and yet, let me discover that they are secretly "eating" outside. so at the end of the day..... they only want the piece of cake.... and eat it.

i rem i was so pissed that someone once cheated on me behind my back, when he keeps telling me that we are in monogamy.... at the end of the day...... he only wans me to remain loyal..... while he "eats". PISSED!

always remember that...... what you can do..... your partner can also do, (even better in some case). so the next time you have the urge to "sidetrack", please remember that your partner might be doing the same thing too........

and when you managed to fight the urge to have casual sex...... please remember that....... your partner most likely, are like you....able to fight the urge to have sex with someone else.

what goes around...... comes around....

Song Of The Day...
Natalie Imbruglia - TORN.



I thought I saw a man brought to life
He was warm, he came around like he was dignified
He showed me what it was to cry

Well you couldn't be that man I adored
You dont seem to know, don't seem to care what your heart is for
But I don't know him anymore
There's nothing where he used to lie
My conversation has run dry
That's what's going on, nothing's fine I'm torn

I'm all out of faith, this is how I feel
I'm cold and I am shamed lying naked on the floor
Illusion never changed into something real
I'm wide awake and I can see the perfect sky is torn
You're a little late, I'm already torn

So I guess the fortune tellers right
Should have seen just what was there and not some holy light
To crawl beneath my veins and now
I don't care, I have no luck, I don't miss it all that much
There's just so many things that I can't touch, I'm torn

I'm all out of faith, this is how I feel
I'm cold and I am shamed lying naked on the floor
Illusion never changed into something real
I'm wide awake and I can see the perfect sky is torn
You're a little late, I'm already torn. torn.

There's nothing where he used to lie
My inspiration has run dry
That's whats going on, nothing's right, I'm torn

I'm all out of faith, this is how I feel
I'm cold and I am shamed lying naked on the floor
Illusion never changed into something real
I'm wide awake and I can see the perfect sky is torn
I'm all out of faith, this is how I feel
I'm cold and I'm ashamed bound and broken on the floor
You're a little late, I'm already torn