Compromise

Relationships, no matter how good, are inevitabily a series of compromises. But how much of ourselves, are we willing to sacrifice for the other person, before we stop being ourselves? In relationships, when does the art of compromise, become compromising?

Just what are you willing to compromise for your partner? and what your partner is willing to compromise for you?

Are you willing to compromise your precious sleeping time? your mahjong time? your rest hours? sacrifice your time with other dates? will you be happy to just see him for an hour?

Is he willing to sacrifice his internet surfing time? soccer watching time? rest hours? will he be happy to include you in his life? is there always time for a hug and kisses?

at the end of the day... the worst thing that you could do, is to compare your relationship with him, to any others that you might have been in. where you were the king.

as i mentioned in my previous posting about Relationship Karma. What goes around.... comes around.....



我是被你囚禁的鸟
已经忘了天有多高
如果离开你给我的小小城堡
不知还有谁能依靠
我是被你囚禁的鸟
得到的爱越来越少
看着你的笑在别人眼中燃烧
我却要不到一个拥抱

我像是一个你可有可无的影子
冷冷的看着你说谎的样子
这撩乱的城市
容不下我的痴
是什么让你这样迷恋这样的放肆

我像是一个你可有可无的影子
和寂寞交换着悲伤的心事
对爱无计可施
这无味的日子
眼泪是唯一的奢侈