Crushes.

been reading the forum the past few days, and realised that some people are complaining that they are so close so close with their male colleague. and when they found out that their colleague are straight, they felt betrayed. they feel sad. they feel "dumped" and that they have to quite their job just to avoid their colleague.

i was reading it, and wondering to myself....

1) just because someone is caring to you, and you totally digs them... doesn't means that he is in love with you......

2) you already knows it is a crush..... then what are you expecting? that they suddenly one day come and tell you that they love you and wanna be with you forever?

3) He has a girlfriend.. will it affect u having a "crush" oh them?

4) he was not even emotionally attached to you..... why would you feel betrayed / dumped?

5) even if he is gay..... does that necessarily mean that they have to like you back?

people must understand that... when you like someone.... they might not like you back.... GAY OR STRAIGHT alike....

so if you are having a crush on someone, and that u understand that they might not like you back..... then why go through all the big hoo haa?

at the end of the day, a crush is just there.... solely for your masturbation fantasy enjoyment / daydream purpose..... just because your crush have a bf/gf... won't change anything.

or are you trying to tell me that, you have a crush on someone, he is gay.... you 2 WILL definately be together? *roll eyes*