Stubborn Confused People

some people are just stubborn. to the extend that when they know they are wrong, they turn the table around and talk about other things, pin-pointing on other things, which are very off topics.

a brief example:
(guy started 3 relationship in 6 months. ending up catching all 3 in TMC cheating)

A: i keep kenna dumped! always catching the party cheating!

B: its part and parcel of gay life. u got tell him u wanted Monogamy a not?

A: wah lau! what will he think of u when u tell him that directly?

B: But if no monogamy was agreeded, then why u upset?

A: please lar. at these present times still got monogamy de meh?

B: ..........then why u break up?............

A: cos i caught him in TMC?

B: what you doing in TMC in first place?

A: i got say i in TMC meh?

B: then you got spies in TMC ah? u know him 1 month nia ley.

A: Spies? please lor~ u think stone age ah

B: maybe next time, dun just jump into relationship lor. know him longer first...

A: wah lau.. how can gauge a r/s can last a not by long or short de? u mean know long long liao sure will last de meh?

B: tot u looking for a lasting relationship?

A: wah lau! u all hor, know what you all want a not de? u actually believed that now still got monogamy de meh? r/s can last very long de meh? etc etc......

conclusion:

er.... i thought the topic was about....

1) U caught ur bf in TMC. dats why break off?


2) U wanted Monogamy.

3) U telling ppl that monogamy not possible in present world?

4) U never explained what u doing in TMC to begin with, that u can catch him.

in short, want to jump into relationship, bear the consequence. no point cry father cry mother when things dun work out the way you want them to. afterall a relationship is not solely about YOU.

ever wondered why all 3 have the same outcome? all 3 cheated on u? all 3 broke off with u. ever wondered that the problem might lies with u?

If you are not open to possibilities, then why wanna seek advise? *roll eyes*