Empty Promises

How many of you guy have ever experience sadness post broken promises? How many of you have ever made "White" promises to ppl?

i simply hate it when ppl make promises to me that they simply do not intend to keep. the most frequent promises i tends to get:

"I call you back in a while" (PLEASE kindly state ur "a while" means how long later.)

"We go next time okie?" (MAYBE i should take it that we will not be going)

"I'll Help you find" (no intention to help me find, then dun stop me from finding it myself)

"I'll do for you later" ( i cannot do myself meh? must wait for you to do for me ah?)

I'm not saying that many is giving empty promises on purpose. some cases are that they really forgot. but i always regard a promise as a big deal. When a promise is made. try to keep it. if unable to be fulfilled by dateline, please give a valid reason. do not just act blur and hope that i will forget. i WON'T. i just dun wan to make a big fuss out of it only.

if you think that i forgot. god bless you.

The above example is just some simple promises i tends to get. i have yet to go to those SERIOUS wans.

"I Swear i only love you. you will only be my one and only!"

end up, i caught the one who "SWEAR" that to me, cheating. when questioned, he gave me answers like "At that point, things haven;t happen...."

i was like...... WTF. so much for till death do us part. maybe in his context is. "Till Death Do Us Part... but have to see what happens only when we die."

this is precisely the reason why you never hear me saying things like "You are the only one i love." or similar things like that. cos before that person, think i was in love with someone else too. how can he be the ONLY one? then where does your ex stands? he can only be the ONLY one at this point of time.

at the end of that day, please think and rephrase whatever you wanna say, before you say it out. it might means nothing to you, but to the person hearing it. it IS a big deal.

Of cos to be fair... there are really ppl who tends to keep their promises. :)

Song of the day: Promises -- Cranberries.