Active / Passive?

In a relationship, people's conception of an Active = Someone who takes charge, and Passive = Someone who is a follower.

under general circumstances, most people will relate an Active to be a Top and a Passive to be a bottom. So are you a passive or active?

answer the below questions to find out.

1) When out with a partner, are you the one who decides where to go / what to do?
A) Yes, he waits for me to decide everytime
B) No, he decides all and i'll follow
C) depends, we discuss and conclude together

2) When out for a movie, who is usually the one who decides the show to watch?
A) You
B) Him
C) not sure, as we usually decide on the show together.

3) When lying around on a bed,
A) i like to lay on his chest and feels his warmth.
B) i like to hug him on my chest and smell his hair.
C) Neither, i like to lie on the pillow Face to Face.

4) When having sexual fantasy of your partner,
A) I always imagine myself being fucked brutally by him.
B) I always imagine myself fucking him, with him moaning like crazy.
C) nah.. i don't imagine us doing anal.

5) When holding hands, walking side by side.
A) His hands are always overlaying on top of mine
B) My hands are always overlaying on top of his.
C) Either, depends on who is walking in front at point of time.

6) When watching movie, you most feel like...
A) Resting my head on his shoulders.
B) Let him rest his head on your shoulders
C) depends on situation.

If your answers are majority A (3 answers or more) you are most likely a Passive.

If your answers are majority B ( 3 Answers or more) you are most likely an Active.

If your answers are evently mixed (all 6 answers). you are mostly likely a Flexi.

The above are just a general guideline. however what i wanna bring out is that.... try to do this mental test with every NEW relationship. do not use the experience of the past relationship as a gauge.

When you are an Active in a past relationship, doesn't means that you are not a Passive in current relationships. It reallly depends on the situation of you and your current partner.

The above is just an gauge for the emotional part of the relationship. i have seen Tops who look so sister! and Btms who looks so manly. i mean... just yesterday, i thought i saw an ultra "Metrosexual" (Read: Sister) guy in the streets. turns out, he is married with 2 kids!

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