Wednesday, August 6, 2008

2 Timing

i'm sure many have actually dated quite a few guys in your life. now.... would it be shattering to know that the guys you have dated, is actually attached from the very begining?

i have a fren, A, whom have been dating, B, for about 4 years. they know each other at a local suana. after a passionate sex, exchange number, talked on the phone, went on their very first date, then slowly, developed into a relationship thingy.

they will go for holidays every year...
the only curfew B has.... is that he do not sleep over at A's place. reason he gave was that he feels "pai say"


A and B meet on a frequency of 2-3 days a week. yes, even after 4 years, they are still meeting quite frequently.

When A first introduced B to me.... erm.... my heart skipped a beat.. i bedded this guy before :P, B and i had previously gone out for a few dates before, somehow i felt no sparks between us. but of cos, that was before they even knew each other. (how small is the AJ world?) but erm..... i chose to remain quiet, due to my young age then. i am happy i did that. look how well that couple turned out...

as years goes by, me and A got better and better, he began to tell me his problems with his bf. the main problem that exist is.... there are no problems. and this smooth relationship kindda freaks A out a bit. B was a loving person, he was everything that A could ask for. B is a very discipline person, he would pay his bills on time, holds a professional job, his time was very predictable.

A felt that B was too predictable, thus he usually do not even bother with what B do, when he have his "free" time. B will give loving sms to A to let him know of his "where-about" and such. in short, A was very happy with B.

a few weeks ago, i bumped into an very old fren, C, whom i have known for about 9 years. but lost contact for about 7 years, (i drifted away ever since i got attached) midway through chatting, i learnt that C have been attached for 8 years, and still going, but as C is an air steward, he is seldom in singapore. and he goes on and on about how accomodating his bf is.... then he showed me a "Neo-Print" of him and his bf.

my heart skipped again. there in the neoprint acting cute is C....... and..... B!! (OMG!) i asked what's B's name... and ta da~ i have confirmed that B is attached with another person! (Both my friends!)

B was 2-timing! OMG. my first instinct, i should tell A. but then.... whenever A tells me about B, he sound so..... blissed.

i was a bit vexed if i should tell my friend. but thinking deeper, why ruin 2 "perfect" relationships, all because of something i know? so being the usual "bo chup" person that i am, i remained quiet.

was simply surprised by A and C only. how could they have been attached for soooooooo long, without knowing that his partner is actaully attached with another person? oh well.... i do take my hats off B. LOL

Song Of The Day: 周蕙 -- 替身

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