I just read a friend's blog. and realised, how he viewed the whole issue. in case you didn't know, i was in a quarrel with a very very close friend not too long ago. and it sorta became a war of the blog.
i must say that we both started reacting this way, mostly is out of initial fustration. i should not go deeper into the story, as this "drama" have passed. but i felt the need to clarify certain things...
this friend of mine thought that my posting on "廉价的友情" was targetted at him.... Yes i was a little unhappy about his "suah lor, i go bowling" thingy. but that was not the first time things like these happened, i do not see the need to blow my top about things like these. Anyway, the posting was not targetted at him. I was pissed with another friend of mine (Not from BW, in case you are wondering, and YES i have other friends outside of BW too...) i have known that guy for 10 over years. so i generally blogged "廉价的友情" so as to vent my fustration.
think my friend saw that posting and thought that my posting was targetted at him. thus he wrote a posting on "Princess" in his blog.
which at first glance, i tot was pin pointing at me. my immediate reaction was "he was not happy with me saying 'Suah Lor', also no need to post till like that". ya.. that posting disclosed some of my personal thoughts/things that my friend once promised to keet them a secret. i was fuming.
that night, i received a number of sms and calls from other friends, all trying to show their concerns. i was playing mahjong that night. thus was kindda shock to see that posting (on the mahjong table with my handphone), it somehow caught me off guard. think i especially mind the inccident, cos it came from a really really close friend. thus when i got over the thing, and i blogged on "Emotions", but this time, trying to explain my emotional path, also in a way, to let my friends know that i am alright already.
think that friend was offended by some of the things i said in "Emotions", he posted another "Angel Or Devil", which i find offensive.... neitherless, what have happened have happened.
And nope, i am no longer angry with him, nor will i avoid him.
and in case you are wondering, what if i were to bump into him one day, catfight?
LOL nah... i will just have a smile on my face.
at the end of the day, while we could no longer be close friends, i do not see the need for me and him to become enemies. afterall, he knows me best, and i knows him well....
gosh... i think this episode is getting draggy. lets move on from here. shall we? :) i apologise if this inccident caused inconvenience for anyone,especially to those who were innocently dragged into the chaos.
And thanks to all the friends who have sent me sms showing your concerns. i appreciate it :) Thanks.
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